How do I find true love?

My journey into love seems to have spanned decades. It has taken me through many painful and oppressive relationships, which I’d like in turn to spare you from – if I can.

If you’re wondering how you find true love, keep reading..

This journey required a lot of learning via unsuitable partnerships. It involved a lot of reading, research, and therapy. Until finally I was able to move away from dysfunctional and defective connections. Release outdated beliefs, and transition into a truly loving and equal partnership.

“Most destructive is the belief that a healthy, mature adult is not supposed to need emotional connections”
Dr S. Johnson

I have spent years of my life slowly and painfully picking my way through it all alone. Unlike you, I didn’t have access to a fast and effective formula or a relationship coach who could help me navigate the path to a healthy and happy relationship.

ConsideringLove.com’s Recipe for Love Programme fast tracks the search for true love. It supports clients in navigating the dating process every step of the way. Offering weary hearts the promise of a place to finally call home.

“I used to look around and wonder what I was doing wrong, everyone else seemed to be making it look so damn easy”

I used to look around and wonder what I was doing wrong—everyone else seemed to be making it look so damn easy. I’m a therapist; I should have known what to do, but I couldn’t get it right.

“Instead I chose to believe that love isn’t easy”

This was my mantra, and I kept repeating it to myself because my relationships always felt troubled, painful, and diminishing. Sound familiar?
Well, I’m here to tell you some good news—finding your way into a healthy, sustainable relationship might be troublesome for some of us, however in contrast, healthy, nourishing, and harmonious love is a beautiful, and easy connection.

A tried and tested programme

The techniques that we use on our programme have been tried and tested by both myself and my colleague, therapist Bryony Asha. After years of mismatched connections both of us have transitioned into successful, sustainable long-term relationships. Our journey here involved individual self-work and therapeutic support for each other.

“Divorced and single in your 40’s is a very daunting place to be”

A very personal journey

Bryony and I are both divorcees. We both found ourselves single again in our late 40s, desperately searching for meaningful romantic relationships. Oddly enough, at this time, we both stumbled upon similar literature and received other relationship guidance. This led us, unbeknownst to each other, on parallel pathways.

We met somewhere along this journey. And found ways of enhancing and expediting each other’s progress by leveraging our unique therapeutic skills.
This journey and the practices we devised to enable us to move into new and healthy experiences of love, have been reworked and now form the basis of Considering Love’s Recipe for Love programme. 

This programme isn’t just a set of exercises


It’s a unique opportunity to navigate your journey into love with the full support of two coaches. We accompany you as you uncover your subconscious programming around love and lovability, and support you in reprogramming your beliefs and behaviours towards love. 

When you finally meet the right partner, you will experience a deep sense of comfort and stability.

A real emotional connection is deeply gratifying and fulfilling.

This might not sound earth-shatteringly sexy because it’s not the fireworks we’ve been taught to go after.

But it ‘blows your socks off’ in a whole new way.

The ease of the connection you make with the right partner is astounding and profoundly moving.

The really good news is this connection is available for all of us to experience, and it can last a lifetime.


Finding my way into the kind of love where you experience a real emotional connection (which I once considered impossible), has been the journey of a lifetime – But it doesn’t have to take you a lifetime to achieve the same results!

How do you find true love?

The program we have devised at ConsideringLove.com could have you on the road to finding fulfilling love in just a matter of weeks.
So, what are you waiting for?

Your perfect, enriching and deeply rewarding relationship is waiting to be discovered, contact us today and begin your journey into love!

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