Why can’t I find the right partner?

A couple sharing a romantic kiss in a snowy Munich forest, embracing winter love.

I know you’re fed up being with the wrong person, so let’s change all of that!

So, you’re asking yourself why can’t I find the right partner? That’s such a personal question and not an easy one to face. But you’re not alone, many people find themselves stuck here with no simple answers. That’s because we’re complicated beings and it’s not about what’s wrong with us or the people we meet, but about our hidden patterns, beliefs and behaviours that are influencing our choices.
To understand these, we have to dig a bit deeper.

Where do our beliefs come from?

Some of our beliefs and behaviours might come from our past relationships. They might come from family dynamics, or even from self-worth issues, and all of these could quietly be shaping our approach to love.
Many of us choose what feels familiar rather than asking what would really look after us.
Our beliefs and choices shape the relationships we attract, so understanding and navigating them is key to creating a new love story.


How can I change my ‘love story’?

Fear not, the good news is that constantly choosing the wrong partner or being single, doesn’t have to be a permanent state. We can all change our love story whenever we feel ready by:

  • Developing some self-awareness
  • Understanding our individual needs
  • Healing any emotional blocks

We can move towards building the healthy fulfilling partnerships we all deserve.

I learnt all of this the hard way over many years, but I’m going to show you how you can change your love story in just a matter of weeks.

Here’s How it Works

So where do I start?

You could start by taking a look at my Free videos below designed to help you develop a new mindset around love.

Or you could consider signing up for one of my three pathways into love, if you want to move more quickly into the right partnership.


three pathways into love


The Benefits of working with me on the Recipe for Love Programme

Transform

Follow my clear actionable plan and transform your love life in a manageable timeframe. I’ll help you stay focused and committed to your new love goals

Empower

I’ll help you gain clarity on the subconscious habits and beliefs that have been holding you back. You’ll feel empowered as you make intentional and positive changes

Align

I’ll teach you how to spot the traits and behaviours that align—or misalign—with your values. This gives you a clear filter when navigating potential relationships

Hi, I’m Melika. After years of unhealthy relationships, I finally found my self-worth, broke old patterns, and met my life partner. My journey inspired me to create the Recipe for Love Programme, which is packed with everything that helped me build a lasting, meaningful relationship.
With the right tools, clarity, and confidence, you too can find someone who truly values you.
Let’s rewrite your love story together.

What’s my role?

I’m here to show you how you can move closer to finding the love you deserve. I realise it might feel like a huge step signing up to join me on this journey, so I’ve decided to offer everyone who books the full Recipe for Love Programme a money-back guarantee for extra peace of mind.
I’m here to help you, and if I’m not the right fit for you then I’ll happily return your money no questions asked!

Want to see how I can quickly change your love story?

Money back -No risk purchase

If after your first Recipe for Love session you decide my programme isn’t for you, then I’ll refund you all your money back without question. Further more if you book by March 31st I’m going to give you a whooping 25% discount too!

Features of the Recipe for Love Programme.

Insights into personal love patterns and behaviours

Gain clarity on the subconscious habits or beliefs that may have been holding you back, empowering you to make intentional and positive changes moving forward

Insights on how to identify red and green flags early on

Save time and heartache by confidently spotting traits and behaviours that align—or misalign—with your values, giving you a clear filter when navigating potential relationships

Why can’t I find the right partner?

Have you ever taken the time to explore why you’re still single or why you keep picking the wrong people? Have you really thought about love; how it shows up in your life, what you’ve learned about it, and how those lessons have shaped the way you date and the partners you attract? If not, chances are you’re stuck in a kind of love-Groundhog Day. I know I was—until I finally began to see the patterns in my choices and understand why I was making them.

A loving moment shared between a diverse LGBTQ couple, highlighting tenderness and togetherness.


“I’m a strong believer that it’s human nature to seek connection, find a partner, and experience love”

MDK Clason Founder of Considering Love

What should real love feel like?

Understanding your relationship patterns is just the beginning though— let’s talk about what love is truly meant to offer.

If love doesn’t bring a deep sense of joy and fulfilment to your life in a consistent way then it’s right that you should question it. While it’s natural for relationships to ebb and flow—moments of connection followed by distance— true love is sustained by both parties working to understand and care for the other, emotionally, physically and mentally.
Love should lift your spirit and help you grow, not weigh you down or hold you back.
Everyone deserves to be valued and respected within their partnership, without this love will not survive!

In my programme the Recipe for Love I help people unravel everything they thought they understood about love- how to love and how to be loved. I take them on an inspiring and transformative six-week course that challenges their beliefs and behaviours and explores at depth their romantic patterns. It’s, a very revealing and life-changing experience.

Why is it so hard to find real love?

The problem for many of us when searching for love, is that we continue to approach our search for a partner in the way we always have. Human beings naturally feel safer following what feels familiar; evolution has taught us to trust in the familiar. But familiarity doesn’t always guarantee we’re on the right path.

Understanding the roots of your romantic patterns is the first step to transforming them. With awareness, big changes can happen quickly.

If you find yourself single after many years of looking for love, or you’re constantly in and out of bad relationships, then it might be time to take stock, and forge a new pathway into love.

“This drive to emotionally attach – is wired into our genes and our bodies. It is as basic to life, health, and happiness as the drives for food, shelter, or sex.

Dr Sue Johnson
Johnson, S. (2011) Hold Me Tight, Piatkus

Happy couple in love embracing on a sandy beach by the ocean.

Click here to find out more about our Recipe for Love Programme, and to learn more about ConsideringLove.com just click here

If you’ve found your way here to Considering Love, then perhaps you’re searching for something.

Could that something be love?

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